Are You Free or Do the Glowing Screens Direct You?

There’s one reality on the glowing screens. There’s another one in the realm of the five senses. You can only live in one of them. Which one do you choose?

The other day I talked a bit about screens warping men's perceptions and making them think women all lust after men with giant muscles.

This is not the only way screens have been warping people's perceptions, however.

It is just the tip of the screenberg.

For some years I, like most people I suspect, had been held increasingly captive by the state of the world.

Popular revolts, widespread protests, political polarization, transnational saber-rattling, and of course, unprecedented government lockdowns resulting in a rolling back of civil liberties in a way unprecedented since the flowering of modern liberal democracy.

Not to mention masks everywhere, gym closures, nightlife closures... and a bizarre new dystopian system where the initiated gleefully compete to boast about their excellent compliance with the rules, even as they label and shun those who refuse to comply with the same facility.

In the midst of this cultural collapse/upheaval, I've talked to more and more people who've become much more apathetic about things they used to care about than they ever were before.

The decline of dating is only one example; it's a widespread one, and one I covered (along with the statistics to back it up) here.

Yet even I found myself slowly sinking into a tar pit of progressive apathy, transfixed by the state of apparent global chaos. When you wake up and check the state of affairs and it's one item of shrieking disastrous apocalyptic news after another, who has willpower enough to do anything worthwhile with the rest of his day?

But what happens when you don't wake up and check a bunch of things... but instead just live your life?

Guys Who Ghost and Come Back: How to Handle The Zombies of Dating

In the modern dating world, guys who ghost and come back are the absolute worst. After all, why would they come back when they already disappeared and left?

There’s no easy way to understand guys who ghost and come back. If you haven’t experienced being ghosted, then you’re one of the lucky ones. Ghosting is a relatively new *but all too common* term in the modern dating world, which refers to someone disappearing without any explanation or excuse.

When someone ghosts you and comes back, do you take him back or do you ignore him altogether? While we often want to do the latter, the reality is much different. Even if he ghosted you, there was a point you cared about him.

They all say we should practice what we preach, but it’s much harder than you think. It’s completely okay to struggle with what to do with guys who ghost and come back. Maybe you’re asking yourself why he came back in the first place, or which emotion to portray since he did still ghost you.

However, you do need to learn how to handle these guys. After all, there are a lot of guys who ghost and come back all the time.

[Read: Why do guys ghost? The 15 cowardly reasons why guy usually ghost you]

Why do guys ghost you and then come back?

Honestly, this is far more confusing than a guy just ghosting you. When he ghosts you, at least you’re sure that he’s not interested and you can move on with your life. On the other hand, when he comes back, you don’t know what his intentions are.

Is he bored? Did he make a mistake? Does he want to try again with you? Did he realize your connection was real? Is he going to aplogize? Was there some big reason behind his sudden dissapearance?

These are all the possible questions to ponder upon with guys who ghost and come back.  Oftentimes, guys who end up coming back realize the mistake they made in ghosting you.

Here’s a possibility, and you probably want this one to be the real truth. Guys ghost you in the fear of intimacy and commitment, and they come back because they’re now ready to face the truth that there’s a possible real connection that he just threw away.

However, there’s also the possibility that he came back because he was bored and lonely, even if just for a moment and wanted to try his luck one more time. These are two possibilities on opposite ends of the spectrum. [Read: Why you shouldn’t ghost someone and 5 situations when it’s okay]

What do you do when a guy ghosts you and comes back?

Ghosting will always be terrible, no matter who it is. When they do come back, you should know you have the upper hand. Simply put, you have full control over what you choose to do. When dealing with guys who ghost and come back, it’s up to you whether you’re going to take him back or avoid getting together with him.

If you think it’s worth the risk of giving him another chance *with the real possibility of being ghosted again, which is lileky*, then don’t hesitate to welcome him with open arms. However, it can be challenging to trust him as you’ll never know if he’ll repeat the same pattern and disappear again.

Why did he ghost you?

You might be wondering why on earth he ghosted you. After all, it’s his loss given how you’re the ideal girlfriend material!

You’d be surprised to know that when someone ghosts you, it often has nothing to do with you.

Most often, it has more to do with their unresolved issues than anything else.

Maybe he has a fear of commitment or intimacy, so he chose to ghost you instead of risking getting hurt. Maybe he’s scared to date and have his heart broken, so he just want to get into a girl’s pants and tries to use her before she can potentially use him.

Every guy is different, but there are some common reasons for guys who ghost and come back. [Read: Why being ghosted hurts so much & what you need to do about it]

1. It was going too fast

In other words, he freaked out. You hear this line all the time in relationships. It’s either “you’re going too fast” or “let’s take it slow.” Guys have a major fear of commitment so the last thing he wants is a relationship that speeds faster than the speed of light.

You may have chemistry, compatibility, and everything he’s ever wanted.

However, if the relationship becomes too fast for him, it’ll scare him off into ghosting you. Rather than telling you, he decided that disappearing for a while would cool things down until he could come back to you again. [Read: Signs your relationship is going too fast]

2. He just wanted sex

While sex is normal in a relationship, there’s a difference between guys using you just for sex and guys who have sex with you because of their feelings for you.

Especially if he ghosted you right after getting laid, chances are, sex was all he was after. Maybe it was all roo easy for him and he didn’t get to chase you, or maybe that was his play and intention all along. You’ll never know, because he’ll never tell. [Read: The 15 signs he just wants sex and is using you for his enjoyment]

3. He didn’t care

Ouch, this must really sting. It’s the painful truth that unfortunately, you have to face. Maybe he ghosted you because he just didn’t care about you. He doesn’t think you’re worthy of five more minutes where he could have explained why he thinks things won’t work out.

Simply put, he didn’t care enough to commit to you and be in a relationship with you. This reason is often seen in guys who ghost and come back, especially when they get lonely or bored.

4. Someone else came along

You might not want to hear this, but he met someone better fitted for him than you. Maybe he broke up with his ex before meeting you and decided he wanted to get back together with her, or maybe he met someone around the same time as meeting you.

This is one of the reasons that have absolutely nothing to do with you. So if this was the reason for guys who ghost and come back, then you know it’s because they couldn’t find someone else. [Read: Talking vs Dating – How to know your exact status and tell them apart]

5. He just wasn’t into you

Not all the guys you meet will be into you, and that’s okay. If he ghosted you, he’s not into you enough to stay and get to know you. And he doesn’t respect you enough to leave with a reason. After all, it’s much easier to ghost than to tell you to your face that he doesn’t care about you.

This might be such an asshole move, but a lot of guys are that afraid of confrontation. He definitely should’ve just told you. [Read: Dammit, why doesn’t he like me back? Here’s 20 reasons why]

How to handle guys who ghost and come back

Now that you know why guys ghost you, it’s time you learned how to handle guys who ghost and come back. Remember – you have full control of your feels and your actions on dealing with ghosters.

1. Don’t reply too soon

Ghosters don’t often have the guts to call you, so they either text you or message you on your socials. The general rule of thumb for guys who ghost and come back is to avoid replying instantly. Your heart probably skipped a beat and you’re close to pressing send as soon as he contacted you.

Don’t give him the satisfaction that you were anticipating his message or hoping to hear from him soon.

Instead, take your time in responding to him. If he sends you a text that says “hi” you give him a minimal response back. He has to earn your trust. [Read: Ingenious ways to beat a player who’s playing you]

2. Think about how you feel

Your feelings are the primary factor in dealing with guys who ghost and come back. No matter what angle you choose to look at, being ghosted will always be difficult. He basically had the nerve to disappear without any explanation and pop back up because he was bored. What an asshole move.

If you feel like he doesn’t deserve even a second of your time, then say that. Or just ignore his text back in return. He’ll get the hint.

There’s no reason you should walk on eggshells around him and tell him what he wants to hear. If you do want to give him another chance, remember to use not just your heart, but your head as well! [Read: Ignoring a guy – Why thins works and how to use it well]

3. Assess if you can trust him

Trust is very hard to earn, especially with guys who ghost and come back. How can you tell he won’t disappear from you again? Whatever his reasons for ghosting you, there’s still a huge possibility he’ll do it again.

You need to think hard about whether you can trust him again, or if you’ll always have that lingering doubt he’ll leave anytime something inconvenient happens. [Read: How to lead a guy on – 15 shitty ways to play dirty and get revenge]

4. Get him to acknowledge his actions

Accountability and acknowledgment are two things guys aren’t exactly good at – they’re stubborn that way. Honestly, you shouldn’t be surprised if they never bring up how or why they ghosted you.

If he fails to acknowledge this, do it for him. Remind him of all the things he did and how you didn’t like it one bit. If he doesn’t acknowledge his behavior or try to convince you of his newfound loyalty, that means he sill doesn’t take you seriously and he will do it again.

5. Don’t jump right in

If you decide to get back with him *really take a second thought about this because 9 times out of 10, he’s just using you*, you need to be very careful with how you move forward. Be sure to test the waters first before diving deep.

Take it one step at a time and don’t expect him to be boyfriend material from day 1. Don’t forget – he did ghost you and he can always do it again. While trust is very important, you shouldn’t be too quick to give it away. [Read: Why you need to be slow and steady if you’re getting back together]

6. Continue seeing other people

Don’t limit yourself to just him just because he came back. Avoid thinking that it’s a sign from above that you’re meant to be or something along those lines. Don’t forget he ghosted you!

When dealing with guys who ghost and come back, allow yourself to see other people as well. You can casually date him, but also keep your options open.[Read: 22 early warning signs of a bad boyfriend to watch for]

7. Consider whether you’ve ghosted someone

When deciding whether to let the guys who ghost and come back into your life again, decide if you’ve ever ghosted someone. Don’t be a hypocrite and be so mad at him, if you’ve done the exact same thing.

Isn’t it worth giving him a chance when you know you’ve ghosted a few guys as well? No shame in this, but you really shouldn’t be quick to hate him if both of you don’t realize the gravity of ghosting someone else. [Read: Why being ghosted hurts so much and what you need to do about it]

8. Consider his real reasons

There are some valid reasons for ghosting, while there are others that aren’t as valid. Perhaps they weren’t ready to be in a relationship with anyone or they were going through a difficult situation. Maybe a parent died and they just didn’t have the energy or mindset to talk to someone, even if it’s for the possibility of a romance.

Obviously, his reasons could be a complete lie, but give him another chance if ghosting you was valid at that time. It still sucks, but at least you now understand better.

9. Treat him like you’d want to be treated

Okay, this is probably the hardest one on this list. After all, karma should be a b*tch, right? While you can seek revenge and ghost him when he gets attached to you, this isn’t the right way to go about it, for him or yourself.

If you do choose to give him another chance, your intentions have to be genuine. If you intend to only play him, then simply don’t talk to him, or tell him that his chance has already passed. It’s a much better *and healthier* option than seeking revenge. [Read: 20 signs you’re on the verge of being ghosted by someone]

10. Don’t expect an apology

Just because he came back, doesn’t mean he’ll give you a sincere apology. These days, people are really afraid of confrontation and don’t like to take responsibility for their actions. *unless you land a really good guy!*

In dealing with guys who ghost and come back, don’t expect an apology and a grand gesture from him. [Read: Being left on read – What it really means when a guy doesn’t text back]

So, how do you deal with guys who ghost and come back?

Being ghosted is such a terrible experience that we wouldn’t wish on anyone. Instead of confronting you with the truth, guys become such cowards and disappear instead. Especially when they come back, it leaves you with even more questions and confusion than when you were ghosted.

So when the guy does come back, ask yourself if he’s really worth the mess and the potenial heartbreak of being ghosted again.

No one likes being ghosted, ever. In fact, it’s a shitty thing to do to anyone, no matter the reason. This is why it’s so important to know how to handle guys who ghost and come back. Will you trust him again or ignore him for good?

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How to Enjoy Yourself While Picking Up Girls

For a lot of guys, approaching women’s a chore. Yet if you can make it not a chore, but instead a good time, suddenly it gets easier to do and a lot easier to do WELL.

When a lot of guys start out trying to do pick up girls, they punish themselves.

It's a whole lot of:

• Being awkward
• Facing rejection
• Doing hard things
• Wallowing in failure

However, if you look at the guys who are good with girls, they're all having fun with it:

1. Some of them are playful types who enjoy teasing and flirting with women.

2. Some are physical types who enjoy touching or dancing with women.

3. Some are talkative types who enjoy having a rapt female audience for their stories, insights, or theories.

4. Some are tacticians who enjoy the tactical and strategic game of seduction.

A lot of newer and intermediate guys miss this, and never focus on trying to make seduction fun.

But it's an important point to get to with your courtships. Because if you can't make it a good time, sooner or later you'll burn yourself out.

If you can make it a good time though, it becomes easy to game for as long as you like.

How to Bring Girls Into Your Reality (and Build Compliance)

Frame control is about whose world two people move within. If you can suck her into your world, you dictate the frame – and create an experience for her unlike any other.

One of the thrills of cold approach is the ‘click’ moment.

Tactics Tuesdays: Venue Mood Transitions

Environment has an outsized impact on mood. The right environment can almost seduce a woman by itself. By transitioning venues well, you can enhance a seduction.

How do you get a woman to change her mood?

The easiest way is by putting her into the right environment. Then you get to kick back and let the environment do the work.

Men create (or attempt to create) seductive environments for women all the time:

• They dim the lights and put romantic music on at home

• They take girls places they hope will set the proper mood

• They switch from one venue to a more intimate one as things progress

Yet for all this awareness, a lot of guys have a blind spot a lot of the time to the influence of environment.

The environment you're in plays a BIG role on the mood of your woman.

The more seductive the environment, the less work you must do to maintain a seductive mood within her.

Thus, the better a job you do managing the environments you find yourself in with women, the more effective a seducer you will tend to be.

Why Do So Many People Think Muscles Get You Girls?

Many guys think giant muscles are the key to getting laid. But are they? Do hulking muscles turn you into a babe magnet… or are their effects subtler and more nuanced than this?

We had a commentator asking me the other day why I don't talk about physique more.

He thought it was because maybe if I admitted that big muscles were really the key to getting laid, I'd have to close down Girls Chase and start selling supplements.

After all... who needs to learn game when you can just get ripped?

Once you've got gigantic muscles, beautiful women just chuck themselves at you. Don't they?

Well... not exactly.

But he's right, I should talk more about physique.

However, like many things here, I'm going to give you a perspective you probably won't get elsewhere.

I'm not going to tell you physique doesn't matter. But I'm also not going to tell you you need to be on gear, lifting hard at the gym 3 hours every day, eating raw steaks for lunch, getting your delts and traps as ridiculous as possible.

Instead I'm going to tell you something else.

Feeling Hopeless: How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed & See Hope Again

Feeling hopeless is the absolute worst feeling in the world. It encourages you to feel stuck in a dark place without any hope for whatever the future holds.

When you’re feeling hopeless, you don’t know which steps to take next. You’re stuck in this endless cycle of hopelessness and darkness that you can’t get out of. No matter what you do, you can’t seem to find your way into the light.

When you’re feeling hopeless, this affects several factors, like your ambition, productivity, motivation, and even your ability to go out and have fun.

Hopelessness happens to everyone, but doesn’t mean it gets easier. If anything, this feeling is one of the darkest things you can feel that I wouldn’t wish on anyone.

When you’re stuck in a cycle of hopelessness, you feel numb, alone, unmotivated, empty, and basically just dwelling in isolation and solitude. However, just because you feel this way, doesn’t mean it’ll last forever. Sometimes, all you really need is a break from everything to just breathe and pause from life.

[Read: What is the point of life? The secrets to decode this big comic joke]

Why do you feel hopeless

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer on why we feel hopeless, but it’s mostly because you want to give up on life. Maybe you’re going through a hopeless situation, or maybe everything feels pointless lately. What you need to remember right this moment is that things WILL get better.

You’ll eventually find the light and everything will feel okay. It might not make sense right now, but you’ll eventually have all the answers.

You feel hopeless because the pain is too intense and overwhelming that it turns into hopelessness without you realizing it.

While it can be tempting to give up entirely, you’re much stronger than you think. Your hopelessness is just a setback for a moment in your life, so you can’t let it define your entire life.

Whether it’s caused by failure, rejection, or uncertainty, you’ll find the light at the end of this tunnel and you’ll be so glad you held on. [Read: Are you feeling lost in life? Use these 6 questions to find your way]

What to do when you’re feeling hopeless

Feeling hopeless is a completely valid emotion. You shouldn’t feel bad for feeling this way as it happens even to the best of us. Whatever reason was the cause of this feeling, it’s okay to just breathe and pause even for a bit until you find your purpose again.

Hopelessness can leave you confused on which direction to go to, which is why it’s important to rest. Whatever you do, don’t let your hopelessness consume you to the point of giving up.

Though you need to give a solid try to get yourself out of this darkness. It’s definitely not going to be easy and you may feel as though it’s not possible to get out of that darkness, but it’s time to try to see the light. In this feature, we’ll be listing down some tips you can use in dealing with feeling hopeless. [Read: How to find yourself when you feel like you’ve completely lost your way]

1. Remember that life isn’t static

Life is ever-changing and nothing is ever going to be the same. If you’re feeling hopeless because you were put off by a lot of unexpected changes in your life, that’s okay. Not everyone adjusts to change gracefully, especially if you’re used to knowing every outcome.

However, things are going to happen to you, good and bad, whether you like it or not. This is also the beauty of what makes life so unique. You can’t expect everything to remain the same forever as even Earth is revolving constantly.

If uncertainty is the cause of your hopelessness, take it one step at a time in accepting the new changes. You never know, these changes could actually be good for you! [Read: 20 lifestyle changes you need to make in your 20s to experience a much better life]

2. Learn from the pain

As much as we went to avoid the pain coming from difficult situations, we can’t stop the inevitable. The beauty of what life is all about is that it’s composed of both good and bad moments.

You might experience loss, betrayal, and even grief, but you only experience those because the love and care were so great that it was worth being hurt for.

It’s also what makes life so fragile. Instead of letting the tough times defeat you, they can help shape you into someone stronger and wiser. Use that painful experience and learn from it to become better.

Whenever you’re feeling hopeless, remember that pain is an opportunity to learn and become stronger. Although certain situations are unpleasant, you have to take the best from them. [Read:  How to learn from the rejections you faced]

3. Reflect on your past

The majority of common advice reminds you to never look back into the past unless it’s to measure your progress. When you’re feeling hopeless, looking back into the past can help you reflect on everything you overcame. Remember every moment you thought you’d never survive and yet here you are, still fighting.

If you managed to surpass every difficult situation in your life, then you’ll surpass this one too.

Hopelessness can feel dark and unbearable but that doesn’t mean all is lost for good. Looking back into the other difficult situations in your life can help you find reassurance that you’re stronger than you think.

4. Focus on the good

Don’t let feeling hopelessness distract you from the positive things in your life. There is so much beauty in the world and just because you’re in a dark place right now, doesn’t mean life isn’t beautiful.

Life is comprised of both good and bad. This means just like life won’t always be good, it won’t always be this bad either.

There are so many things you have to be grateful for, even if you might not see it yet. You need to be the kind of person who sees the beauty in even the worst storms. Even if your current situation feels dark, that doesn’t reflect life in general. [Read: 20 things to be grateful for that you don’t appreciate in life right now]

5. Direct your hopelessness somewhere else

In dealing with and managing feeling hopeless, this is where distractions can come in handy. You can always distract yourself with an activity such as painting, journaling, or exercising. Distracting your mind can help steer your feelings of hopelessness into something more productive and creative.

It also serves as an ideal way of expressing your emotions without being judged by others. Studies show that art is very beneficial when you’re going through a particularly dark situation in your life.

Instead of focusing on that numb feeling, direct your focus towards healthy distractions instead. You never know, they could help reduce those feelings. [Read: Feeling stuck in life? How to change directions and live your dream]

6. Take it easy on yourself

Feeling hopeless isn’t an easy feeling, so you need to go easy on yourself. You won’t overcome it by forcing yourself to feel better even when you’re far from ready.

Acknowledge your feelings and give yourself a break when needed. Do whatever it takes to feel better, as long as you’re using healthy coping mechanisms.

Take it day by day until one day, you wake up and you might have a moment of clarity. While it doesn’t take overnight to overcome hopelessness, you won’t get rid of it through force and pressure, either.

7. Talk to other hopeless people

Even if you feel alone in this hopelessness, you’re not alone in your struggle. You can always talk to people who are going through the same darkness in life – they’ll understand you and even give you pieces of useful advice.

You’ll need support and sometimes, taking support from people who haven’t experienced hopelessness isn’t much of a help. Really, how frustrating is it to talk to someone who’s such a ray of sunshine and acts like they’ve never experienced darkness at all, right?

Talking to people who get what you’re feeling can be therapeutic and won’t make you feel misunderstood and alone. When you’re feeling hopeless, it can feel so lonely and that loneliness can make the darkness feel more unbearable than it actually is – which is why you need people. [Read: Why do I feel so alone? The answers that can change your life]

8. You don’t need a self-help book

Okay, the self-help genre had a rise in popularity recently. Contrary to popular belief, it won’t solve your problems. No matter how many self-help books you read, it’s not a magic pill to transform your life and turn it upside down.

They could give you useful and wise pieces of advice, but ultimately nothing will change unless you take action. Do they know why you’re feeling this way or who you are as a person? No. You don’t necessarily need to read a book that tells you how you should live your life.

Even the best-selling book on getting rid of hopelessness won’t transform your life, unless you either take advice from the book or find the support you actually need.

Honestly, reading a self-help book when you’re depressed or hopeless also makes every author sound condescending, which isn’t helpful in the moment. [Read: What is my purpose in life? How to find meaning when nothing makes sense]

9. Talk to a therapist

We literally live in the modern era so there’s no reason to have a bad perception of therapy. No, it doesn’t mean you’re crazy or something’s wrong with you. You can talk to a therapist whenever you feel like it, especially when dealing with feeling hopeless.

Sometimes, all you need is someone to listen and someone to give you a professional opinion on the matter. A therapist can give you the right coping mechanisms to help you manage your hopelessness better. This person isn’t biased – they’re not going to tell your secrets to anyone so it’s a safe place.

It’s the only place where you don’t have to feel judged or ashamed for feeling a certain way. If you feel like your thoughts and emotions are too much to bear, visit a therapist. [Read: How to deal with loneliness in healthy ways]

10. Visualize

Visualization is one of the self-awareness tactics you’ll learn in meditation, which is also applicable to difficult emotions. When you’re feeling hopeless, visualize your life and everything you want to achieve. Even when it feels pointless and hopeless right now, visualize your ambitions, success, personal goals, and relationships.

In other words, visualize the kind of life that would make you happy and proud of yourself. Sometimes, we get so wrapped up in the reality that we think that’s all there is to life.

Visualization can help you focus on the bigger picture and find purpose in everything you’re doing. [Read: How to manifest a better tomorrow and find your true happiness]

11. Cry

Hopelessness can literally make you feel numb and empty of any emotions. However, if you feel the need to cry, you shouldn’t ashamed to do so. Crying is extremely healthy and no, it’s not a sign of weakness.

Keeping your emotions pent up inside of you is the worst thing you can do.

It’s entirely possible that your feelings of hopeless are derived from repressed emotions, why is exactly why you should cry. Fall apart, cry, scream, do whatever you feel like doing – just let it all out.

12. Treat yourself

Everything might feel devoid of emotions but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t treat yourself. Order that ice cream or that burrito you’ve been craving for so long. Don’t feel guilty buying that video game or maybe that dress you’ve been eyeing for ages.

You never know, maybe treating yourself might make you forget your hopelessness for quite some time. Treating yourself now and then helps you remind yourself that you’re alive and fighting, even amidst feeling hopeless. It might be tough, but you’re here – and that’s all that matters. [Read: 27 ways to focus on yourself and create your own sunshine]

13. Focus on your passions

This is probably the last thing on your mind when you’re feeling hopeless, but your passions are important. They remind you what it feels like to be fueled by life and creativity.

In a state of darkness, your passions have the capacity to ignite your soul and entire body with purpose, direction, and fulfillment.

Whether you’re doing something as mundane as painting or listening to music, it can remind you what life is really all about. Hold on to your passions even in hopelessness – they’ll remind you to keep going until you find the light.

[Read: How to overcome self-doubt and get on the path of self-enlightenment]

So, what should you do when you’re feeling hopeless?

Hopelessness can be so dark that it makes you feel stuck in your current situation without any direction or provision. It’s so dark that it can empty your emotions entirely. However, it’s not the end of the world.

Try these steps we’ve shared here, it may feel like the last thing you ever want to do, but try it until it becomes a little bit bearable. One day, you’ll wake up and realize that you’re not feeling as hopeless or lost anymore.

Feeling hopeless is a horrible feeling that can keep you stuck for days, months, or even years. Although, you always need to remember that feeling this way shouldn’t give you shame or guilt. Rather, it just makes you human.

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