How Self-Esteem Issues Make Women Back Out of Sex

Women get self-conscious about their bodies and pussies, which is why you need to make her feel comfortable, or her insecurities can force her out of the situation.

Contents

1. Case Study: The Story of Daisy

2. Women Worry Whether You'll Find Them Attractive

1. Female Body Image and Insecurity

3. Women Hate Their Pussies

1. Pacing the Escalation

2. Be the Rock

3. Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety

4. Make Her Feel Allowed to Have Sex

1. Turning Off the Lights

2. The Right Things to Say and Do

3. The Wrong Things to Say and Do

5. Moving Past Common Self-Esteem Pitfalls

We are in Part 3 of our exploration of sex and female self-esteem.

In Part 1, I described two examples of the seduction falling apart in the last moments of courtship – right as sex was about to happen and the girl was excited and expecting it.

In Part 2, we discussed different ways that self-esteem issues can pop up before a guy invites a girl home.

Now in Part 3, we’ll look closely at what happens in the bedroom – the most vulnerable moment for a woman’s self-esteem.

A guy should be aware of a girl’s self-esteem throughout any scenario with her – especially in the bedroom. In a dating situation, the self-esteem issue is more convoluted because it’s easy to misunderstand the difference between your game versus the girl’s self-esteem, and it's hard to know when and how to make moves.

Sometimes your best intentions to influence a girl’s self-esteem positively can backfire and send the opposite message, making her self-esteem drop in response.