What is a player? And more importantly, are YOU a player? Will being labeled a player have a bad impact on your dating life, or can the label actually help you?
Contents
II. What Is a Player? The Negative Connotation
V. The Morality of Being a Player
What is a player?
Many years ago, when I was still a sniveling newbie in the dating scene, I was friends with an amazingly talented seductionist. I’ll call him Chris.
I went to a party with Chris, and a girl I recognized from work looked at me sideways and asked how I knew him. I didn’t tell her we were part of a secret society of pickup artists that met in a rented room we called a “lair” every Sunday and were out that night to practice our approach techniques.
“He’s a friend of a friend,” I replied.
“Well…” she shriveled her nose, “he’s a notorious player.”
I went back to Chris and told him he had the reputation of being a player. “Really? That’s good,” he replied, obviously pleased with the label.
Why would a seducer be pleased about being called a player?
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