If you’re not someone who has regular sex dreams or you’ve never had one, you might be wondering how to have a wet dream. The good news? It’s possible!
Wet dreams. Everyone has heard about them, but not everyone has experienced them. They’ve been talked about in coming-of-age movies and 90s teen flicks, but other than that, not much is spoken about them, certainly not the answer to how to have a wet dream.
This is a kind of a topic that doesn’t get much attention, even though many people experience wet dreams. There’s a lot to learn about sleep orgasms, especially if you’re someone who’s interested in attempting it.
[Read: Accidental orgasms! How to make the unexpected happen]
What is a wet dream?
Okay, before we dive into things, you need to know what a wet dream is.
A wet dream is also known as a sleep orgasm, nocturnal emission, or a sex dream. In the simplest of descriptions, a wet dream is when a man ejaculates during his sleep or a woman comes in her sleep, secreting vaginal fluids.
Most of the time, people who have wet dreams don’t even realize it until they’ve woken up, and, um, well, see the evidence in their underwear.
Think carefully – have you ever had a sex dream? The kind where your fantasies come to life, and you wake up writhing in a pool of sweat, humping the mattress or pillow, and moaning to your heart’s delight? [Read: Intense orgasms checklist – 11 moves to guarantee one all the time]
It might sound ridiculous, and definitely not something you want your roommate walking in on, but those who have had the pleasure of a wet dream definitely aren’t complaining.
Sex dreams are a fantastic way to spend the night, especially if they’re starring your dream date or describe your sexual fantasy to a tee. While wet dreams are usually associated with horny teenagers, the truth is that plenty of adults are getting their rocks off, too!
Sex dreams – The easy ways to have a wet dream by planning for it
If you’re wondering how to have a wet dream, try these tips and things to know about sexy dreaming and wake up after a good night’s sleep too! [Read: What does an orgasm feel like? The answers-cum-guide to the big O]
1. Know that wet dreams are most common during teenage years
If you’re an adult who’s trying to have a wet dream, we’re sorry to tell you, but it’s usually more common among teenagers. Teenagers are going through hormonal changes. These changes can result in erotic dreams, leading these dreams to become a little on the wet side.
Does that mean you can’t have sex dreams in adulthood? No! It just means they might not be as frequent or easy to come by.
2. Understand that you can’t control your dreams
You may be trying to find a way to control your dreams, but that’s impossible. When you’re sleeping, you’re not in control of what your brain is thinking. So, though you’ll be able to try some of these tips, remember, you cannot control what happens when you sleep.
Maybe some of these tips will help, but there’s a chance they won’t. We don’t want to be negative, we just want you to understand the situation fully. [Read: Healthy balls – 7 easy tests to keep your testicles in great shape]
3. Some people never have a sex dream, and that’s normal too
Maybe you’re thinking it’s weird that you haven’t had one and want to experience it. We understand the desire. But, if you haven’t had a wet dream, don’t worry, nothing is abnormal.
Some people suffer from having too many wet dreams, and others never have them at all. It’s different for everyone.
4. Get in the right headspace before bed
If you want to try to have a wet dream, you should put yourself in the right headspace. This means you should read an erotic novel or look at erotic photos before bed.
Of course, don’t masturbate while doing so. Go to bed sexually aroused and see if something happens that night.
5. Not all sex dreams result in climax
Here’s the thing, if you’re trying to have a wet dream, you’re probably focusing on something arousing before going to bed. And this can help, but just because you have a sexual dream doesn’t mean it’s going to end up as a wet one.
6. Wear comfortable clothing, or nothing at all
When we’re sleeping, our genitals are very sensitive. So, go to bed wearing comfortable underwear or sleeping nude. Physical stimulation plays a major role in wet dreams. So, you want to be as comfortable as possible. [Read: 14 sexy benefits of sleeping in the nude you had no idea about]
7. Check your bedding
Remember how we said physical stimulation is crucial for wet dreams? Well, your bedding plays a part in that.
If you’re sleeping on rough sheets, the odds are it’s doing more harm than good. Get yourself soft sheets and see what happens. [Read: Sexy bedroom essentials – Get your room to scream sex]
8. Sleep position matters
With dreams, your sleeping position may determine whether or not it’ll be a wet or dry one. If you’re not sleeping on your stomach, try it out.
There has been very little research on wet dreams, but all the research out there says that sleeping on your stomach is an important factor in achieving a wet dream.
9. Don’t masturbate before bed
If you want to have a wet dream, it’s best to avoid touching yourself before bed. Oh, and this means sex as well. The research says that the longer you abstain from having orgasms, the higher the chance you have of experiencing wet dreams. [Read: The surprising unknown benefits of not masturbating]
10. Relax
When want to experience a wet dream, the most important thing you can do is relax. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If it doesn’t work, don’t blame yourself. Feeling sad and stressed won’t help you get any closer to having one.
11. Turn off your phone
This is just a good sleep technique in general. If you want to have a restful slumber *and possibly more than that* then switch off your phone and other electronics before bed.
These devices can interrupt our regular sleep patterns and may keep us distracted or awake longer than we should be. So start your dreamland sex marathon off the right way by allowing yourself to have uninterrupted sleep! [Read: How to push the right buttons to achieve multiple orgasms]
12. Make your surroundings sexy
All right, so lighting a scented candle and lubing up is probably not the right idea, but some theories for having a sexy sleep do say you should create a sensual environment in the bedroom before dozing off.
For example, if you’re the type of person who can fall asleep to music, why not pop on your favorite sex playlist before bed? Other great suggestions include putting on silk pajamas, spooning or having your partner spoon you, cupping your lover’s breasts, or feeling your man’s hard-on as you sleep.
It will make for a grease tease, at the very least! All of these extra steps will set your mind into sex mode and may trigger a naughty dream! [Read: The sexiest playlist ever to get you warmed up for naughty dreams]
13. Sleep alone or with your partner only
Do the kids or Pickles the Kitty love to sleep in your bed with you? As sweet as that is, these are definitely not the bedmates you want to have if you’re shooting for an erotic wet dream.
Stick to sleeping alone or with your partner. Not only will this make it easier for you to think adult thoughts, but it’s also less embarrassing for your partner to hear you moaning in your sleep than it would be for your little ones! Explaining that would be quite difficult …
14. Keep the right things in mind
Science shows that we often dream about one of the last things on our minds before bed. Take advantage of this statistic by thinking sexy thoughts about your special someone.
Visualize the last time you had exciting sex.
Let your mind go into detail about what made it so mind-blowing. Then, if you’re not too hot and bothered, try to go to sleep! Your tantalizing memories may just trigger a sexual *Part 2* in your dreams! [Read: 23 signs to know if someone is thinking of you sexually and desires you]
15. Attempt lucid dreaming
If you believe in lucid dreaming, then why not give it a try for yourself? Lucid dreaming happens when you become aware that you are dreaming, while you’re still in the dream.
From there, you may or may not be able to control your dream, allowing you to live out your wildest sexual fantasies. Or just fly a rocket ship full of Doritos… because that would be awesome, too.
Some tips on achieving lucid wet dreams include keeping a morning dream journal *writing down all the dreams you had the previous night*, having a meditation session every day *deep thoughts… possibly dirty ones!* and doing several checks during the day to make sure you are not dreaming.
This may sound silly, but constantly differentiating between asleep and awake will help you become more aware when you are dreaming, therefore giving you the opportunity to control your sexy dreams. [Read: Sleeping together but not dating – A really good idea or a bad one?]
What if you still can’t have a sexy dream?
You need to be aware of the possibility that it might just not happen for you. In that case, focus on making your waking hours as sexually exciting as possible instead!
The more you think about sex, the more likely you are to dream about it. But, that doesn’t mean you should turn yourself into a sex obsessive and think about it 24/7! For sure, wet dreams are fun but if you don’t have one, it’s not the end of the world either.
And anyway, there’s usually some kind of mess to clean up the next morning and that’s never fun, right?
[Read: Middle of the night sex – Are you having it?]
If you want to know how to have a wet sex dream, follow these tips. Of course, there are no guarantees it’ll happen. And if it doesn’t, well, just know not everyone can have a wet dream.
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