How do we spot horny women? Don’t wait for them to tell you. Just use these signs to know if she’s horny and make the first move.
Ask any man how he knows a woman is horny, and he’ll probably answer: “When she’s wet.”
While many men can easily do a lubrication check on their female partners, the same can’t be said for men who are on the prowl and eyeing a group of gals from across the room.
The best men who are able to take women from bar to bed are those who know the signs. They are the men who you’d want to be. You can call it a targeting skill, underrated perhaps, a valuable one nevertheless. Once you master this, you can easily identify that a woman is horny and waiting for you to make a move.
They’re not hard to spot if you’re perceptive and pay close attention. These signs are universal for most women, so you’ll rarely go wrong in spotting that one woman who is down to f*ck among a flock of girl friends. [Read: 37 body language cues a girl gives away if she’s interested in you]
How to spot horny women instantly
These are the signs that you should look for to identify a horny woman.
1. Wandering eye
First, you must learn how to spot that one horny woman in the crowd. Look for a group of women in a bar. Is there one girl who seems disinterested in what her girl friends are talking about?
She’ll be looking around listlessly, sometimes even acting bored, and you’ll be there to give her the attention she’s been looking for.
But be careful not to look like a psychopath spying on his next victim. Learn how to approach a woman without intimidating her.
[Read: One night stand advice – 15 rules to make your hookup go a lot better]
2. Everything to everyone
Another sign to spot a horny woman is how she interacts with people, especially the guys. Does she flirt with every guy she sees? Or maybe she just smiles at them to be nice. Observe how she is and if you see her getting friendly with almost every guy who notices her, that is key.
Make your move quickly, because this also means you’ve got competition. [Read: 12 ways to tell if she’s flirting or just being friendly]
3. The way she touches her hair
A horny woman would twirl her hair and caress it in a sensual way to grab the attention of the guy. But this usually goes with a flirty smile and seducing eye contact.
Some people just touch their hair a lot because they’re nervous, so if she seems a little bit uncomfortable, just leave her alone. [Read: 27 signs to tell if a woman is attracted to you sexually and wants you to get closer]
4. How she dresses
Is she showing a LOT of skin? Maybe she comes in with an extra slinky skirt, and when she sees you staring at her, she hikes up her skirt even more. She may also lean forward to enhance and draw attention to her cleavage.
If she’s wearing sexy clothes and emphasizes her assets even more, then maybe she wants someone to notice.
But remember that a lot of women just enjoy dressing a certain way, so it doesn’t necessarily mean she’s asking for it. That is why you must incorporate this with other signs to know for sure if she’s really horny or just wants to look hot for pictures with her friends. [Read: When are women at their horniest? Science shows you the way]
5. She’s told her friends
She and you may have the same friend group, and you’ve heard from her friends that she thinks you’re hot. Yes, she definitely wants to have sex with you.
Women tell their friends everything, so talking to their friends is also a great way to identify if she’s horny for you.
6. Touchy-feely
If you approach a woman who gets very touchy, she’s definitely horny. She may shake your hands and make her fingers linger even more. She may lean into you for a peck on the cheek, but then her hand stays on your arms or chest for a few seconds longer.
People can be friendly, but never to the point where they keep squeezing your biceps and playing around with your hair. Women know exactly how to flirt with you just by touch, so pay close attention to it.
[Read: 13 lusty signs of sexual attraction to keep your eye on]
7. Lingering gaze
No matter if you’re staring at her from across the room or already having a conversation, a horny woman would have this “sticky” lingering gaze. It may even look like she’s undressing you with her eyes, or imagining just how well you’d look naked in her bed.
When this happens, do not break eye contact *and make sure you don’t look too creepy*. Play along with her game. This is the perfect time to try eye fucking to enhance the sexual tension.
[Read: 13 subtle eye contact flirting tips to catch someone’s eye from afar]
8. Sexual innuendo
When you’re talking to a horny woman, she’ll make sure you know she’s horny. Anything you say to her, as casual as you may start off, would be met with a lot of personal, even revealing, information.
Ask her how her day was, and she may answer that she needed a “good time” to cap it off *notice how she meaningfully looks you up and down while saying this*.
The jokes will be slightly suggestive and dirty, so don’t be shy to go along with it. She may also mention how she has a wine/basketball jersey/Al Pacino movies collection you just have to see. Such unsolicited information is meant to lure you into her place for some you-know-what. [Read: The easiest moves to seduce any girl and get her in bed with you]
9. Flirty smiles
There are so many meanings to the smiles of a woman. And there’s a HUGE difference between the smile of a woman who’s just being nice, and one of a woman who’s horny.
Whether you’re just eyeing each other from afar or are already engaged in some chit-chat, how she curves those lips and how those eyes naughtily sparkle can tell you just how much she wants you. [Read: 29 secret ways to subtly flirt and make them desire you subconsciously]
10. Peacocking
A horny woman who wants to snag a guy to take home will be exhibiting peacocking behaviors to stand out. That woman you’re eyeing? She may yell, scream, jump about, jut out her buns, and do just about anything to catch everyone’s attention.
But if she’s just behaving this way because she’s really drunk, it’s best to stay away. Do not take advantage of her. Consent is always most important.
11. Kinky conversations
More than sexual jokes and unsolicited personal information, a horny woman won’t be shy to discuss some kinky topics. She might delve into her past sexual encounters, her bedroom talents, and even double entendres.
This is her way of telling you she wants you and wants you to know what you’re in for. [Read: 20 dirty questions to ask a girl and leave her wet]
12. Compliments
Another good sign of a horny woman is if she goes all out in the compliment department, which is far from just being polite.
She’ll rave about your looks or physical assets. She’ll comment on how big your hands are, and if she’s ultra frisky, she might even tell you how big your shoes are and already make the association.
Don’t be hesitant to compliment her back. Let her know that you’re also attracted to her.
13. She invites you to spend time alone with her
Women usually prefer to be alone with men they know well and feel platonically comfortable with. But if you don’t know each other well, and she asks to be alone with you, it may be because she’s horny.
[Read: Casual sex and how to find the hookup of your dreams]
14. How she responds to your advances
Some horny women are shy, so they let you take the lead. If interested, she’ll encourage you to continue flirting rather than giving you negative or neutral responses.
But sometimes, a woman may be attracted to you but not sexually yet. So if you suggest sex and she doesn’t want it, you should stop pursuing her.
15. Your crib
Try mentioning random stuff that you have in your place, and she might show extra keen curiosity about it. She might even hint about going to your place by saying she wants to try or see what you have in your crib. This is horny code for: “Let’s get out of here and have crazy hot sex.” [Read: How to recognize a potential hookup and take her home]
16. Physiological signs
Apart from the outward signs, there are also physiological signs that horny women give off. Such as increased heart rate, rapid breathing, and dilated pupils. However, you have to be really close to her to see these signs.
Of course, there are also other quirks to watch out for, which are unique to each woman. She may lean closer to you, show off her cleavage even more, scratch the back of her neck, whisper closer to your ear, lick her lips, slowly look at you from head to toe, or even daringly reach for your crotch!
[Read: The art of getting any girl horny and wet just by sitting next to her]
17. She lets you know
Even if you see all these signs combined, it doesn’t mean it’s proof of consent. These signs only help you guess if she may be looking for a hookup based on her behaviors. They’re not to confirm if she wants to sleep with you unless she says it out loud.
Ultimately, it’s her words that matter. If a woman is really horny, she’ll tell you herself. But if she doesn’t ask, you can do it. So now that you’re confident she wants to have sex with you, the last thing to do is ask her if it’s true. Make sure she’s comfortable and sober enough to make her own decision.
Asking for consent will never ruin the mood. If anything, it’ll make her respect and desire you more.
And remember that she can change her mind any time she wants, and you shouldn’t be petty about it. Even if she’s already naked in your bed and you two are making out, if she says stop, you stop. And you should expect the same from her.
How to respond to a horny woman who wants to have sex with you
Now that you know that she’s horny and looking for a hookup, it’s time for you to make your decision.
1. If you’re both interested
If you’re both horny and attracted to each other, congratulations! You can now go home together and have wild hot sex.
But this won’t guarantee that everything after will go smoothly. You need to be sure that you’re both on the same page about this. It’ll be a big problem if she’s looking for something more after sleeping with you, and you only want a one-night stand. Talk to her about this and clear any question before you go through with it.
What if this is her first hookup ever and she’s nervous? Help her relax and wait until she gives you permission to make the next move. Sex is only good if both parties are truly enjoying it.
[Read: Your guide to better sex – What you need to do differently]
2. If you’re not interested
You may be interested at first but then change your mind, or she’s coming on too strong, and it’s just not what you want. It’s better to turn her down than just get it over with. Remember that this should be a fun and enjoyable experience, so what you want is just as equally important.
There are many ways to reject a woman without hurting her feelings. Just be polite and friendly but don’t show too much personal interest. You can make yourself seem sexually unavailable by mentioning another woman or showing someone else attention.
If she still doesn’t get the hint, just be straightforward and let her know you’re not interested in having sex with her anymore.
[Read: How to reject someone nicely and make sure you don’t lead them on]
Looking for a real connection is hard, but looking for a hookup is easy. There are many horny women out there who are always down to f*ck. Just pay attention to these signs and ask for proof of consent before you seal the deal.
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