Confrontative Frame Control: When & When Not to Use

It can make sense to directly confront a girl’s frame – sometimes. Yet confront her frame at the wrong times, and all you’ll do is spin your wheels… or worse.

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Table of Contents

1. What Is Confrontative Frame Control?

   • Breaking Rapport

   • Reject Her Request

   • Call Her Out

2. When Should You Use Confrontative Frame Control?

   • When to Break Rapport

   • When to Reject a Request

   • When to Call Her Out

3. Conclusion

Today’s article is a part of my series on frame control and dealing with tests. I’ll continue my discussion of testing, covering two interrelated subjects:

• What is confrontative frame control? How is it used as a test?

• When should you use confrontative frame control?

Confrontative frame control directly declines her frame-grab head-on, such as saying, “NO, I will not do that!” or “That is not going to happen” to her request.

You will use aggressive frame control whenever a girl is behaving poorly or trying to test your limits.

No worries, I give examples throughout this post.

If you recall my theoretical post about tests, I mentioned that some women test a guy’s limits to see how much crap he will put up with. A man who accepts bad behavior is usually viewed as a wimp.