Sex Talk Calibration, Pt. 2: How Explicit to Be

The explicitness of your sex talk is key. Too explicit, and some girls will be turned off. Not explicit enough, however, and some other girls won’t be interested.

Hey all. Last week we covered sex talk calibration given different contexts. You should consider the contextual factors when talking to a girl about sex. Today I would like to discuss how to calibrate how explicit you should and can be when talking about sex.

Table of Contents

1. Light Versus Bold Sex Talk

   • Do You Need Bold Sex Talk?

   • When Do You Need Bold Sex Talk?

   • Socio-Cultural Factors

   • Other Factors

2. Epilogue: The Social Frame

Today and next week, we will discuss transitioning into sex talk. As you know, sex talk helps with many areas:

• Stimulates her
• Sets a sexual frame
• Conveys attractive personality traits like sexual knowledge and experience (sexual prizing)
• Diffuses resistance with your set
• Generates sexual comfort
• Escalates the vibe

It’s an essential dimension in sex talk calibration. Combining this post with part one will make you a more calibrated sex talker.