Wingman Guide, Pt 1: Intro to Wingmanning – Basic Rules

A wingman can be a great asset when you go out to meet girls. But the wrong wingman can play saboteur. Follow this guide & these rules to pick a GOOD one.

Hey, guys. In my last few posts on selecting nightlife companions, I’ve discussed going out with others versus going out solo, a subject discussed often. We’ve gone over selecting the number of people to go out with and choosing the right people to tag along with you.

Table of Contents

1. Selecting Your Wingman

   • A. Skill Level

   • B. The Ability to Go Solo

   • C. Predictability

   • D. He Matches You

   • E. No Risky Game Styles

   • F. No Negativity

2. Follow the Rules

3. Parting Words

We briefly mentioned wingmanning, and I decided not to delve too far into this discussion then. Those posts covered going out with people who may not desire to cooperate in your women-hunting endeavors because they are not wingmen but cool people who know many others, look good, and can increase your mood and value.

We concluded that it is best to:

1. Go out solo.

2. Go out in a larger group.

3. Avoid going out in groups of three whenever possible.

4. Avoid going out with one other unless he is your explicit wingman; otherwise, he will be in the way.

So, in this post, we will discuss the basics of wingmanning and the criteria for choosing the right wingmen, then go through different wingmanning rules. In the coming weeks, we will discuss more strategies and techniques to use with your wingman.